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Day 2.

What Is a Chaminade Man?

Presented by

Bro. Stephen Balletta ’74

Faculty, Chaminade High School

May 2nd
2026

11:45 am -
12:45 pm, EST

Main Stage

Panel Discussion

  • MAIN STAGE

Introduction

At a moment when many young men are adrift, this presentation asks a timeless question with urgent relevance: What is a Chaminade man? The crisis is real. In the United States, men account for roughly 80% of suicides, young men are significantly less likely to enroll in and complete college than women, and increasing numbers report loneliness, lack of purpose, and disengagement from faith and community. These are not just statistics—they are signs of a deeper need for formation.

This talk proposes that the answer lies within the Chaminade tradition itself. A Chaminade man is formed by the motto “Fortes in Unitate” — Strength in Unity: a man who is not isolated, but rooted in brotherhood, faith, and community. He is guided by the school’s enduring principle: he does the right thing at the right time for the right reason—regardless of who is watching. In a culture often shaped by convenience and self-interest, this vision calls for integrity, courage, and moral clarity.

In the face of today’s challenges, the Chaminade man must learn three things: how to live with purpose rather than drift, how to build authentic relationships rather than settle for isolation, and how to ground his decisions in faith and conscience rather than impulse or pressure.

Finally, this talk argues that the world urgently needs what the Chaminade man can offer: principled leadership, faithful witness, and a commitment to the common good. Formed in unity and strengthened by faith, the Chaminade man is not only prepared to succeed—but to lead, serve, and transform the world.

 

“I've been blessed. Fifty years ago, I set out to become a Marianist Brother, and, by the grace of God, here I am – still.  I’ve lived with Marianists committed to their faith in Jesus Christ and to His Blessed Mother and dedicated to the mission of Catholic education, and I have been inspired by their example.  I’ve known generations of young Flyers who have come to this school a little bit fearful, as I was, of what lay ahead and who have graduated as Chaminade men, equipped to make a positive difference in this world.  Who could ask for anything more?”

Speaker

Two words tell you all you need to know about Bro. Stephen Balletta: Marianist Brother.  Born on September 22, 1956, Bro. Stephen was raised by Vincent and Maria Balletta in Port Washington, New York.  Growing up in a family of four children, thirteen-year-old Stephen Balletta joined a much larger family...